“An angry man opens his mouth and shuts his eyes.” – Cato
In This Episode, We Get Stoic About:
As Cato notes, when we open our mouth impulsively, we often close our eyes to reason. And whether on the street or in the home, such blind rage leads to regrettable words and actions that can be like gasoline on a smoldering fire. Today we discuss the importance of opening our eyes before we open our mouths.
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Takeaways
Verbal judo is a deescalation technique that emphasizes staying calm and professional in difficult situations.
Impulsive and angry rhetoric can have negative consequences and should be avoided.
Controlling emotions and words is especially important in law enforcement.
Reflecting on past experiences with impulsive and angry rhetoric can help improve communication skills.
Until Next Time…out of role!
Open Your Eyes